I am very depressed about my relationship and I am very possessive. But I want to free from it and want to make a clear relationship. So What should I do? Pls tell me.

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You need to deal with your possessiveness especially if it infringes on trust and makes you quite dysfunctional. It could be a sign of yoru own insecurities and that needs to be dealt with too. If you have an understanding and loving BF, you could express your problem to him to see that he does not inadvertently provoke the jealousy by any thoughtless behaviour. You should both meet with a counselor in this regard. Do not feel embarrassed to meet professionals in this regard because you can prevent irreparable damage to a relationship that may be very prospective.

Saul Pereira · Accepted Answer

You need to deal with your possessiveness especially if it infringes on trust and makes you quite dysfunctional. It could be a sign of yoru own insecurities and that needs to be dealt with too. If you have an understanding and loving BF, you could express your problem to him to see that he does not inadvertently provoke the jealousy by any thoughtless behaviour. You should both meet with a counselor in this regard. Do not feel embarrassed to meet professionals in this regard because you can prevent irreparable damage to a relationship that may be very prospective.