Marital Stress And Homoeopathy!

Marriage is perhaps the most important relation in an adult’s life. That’s why it needs extra care and attention, especially when things are not exactly gung ho. This is where marriage or marital therapy comes in.
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Homeopathy integrated with Marriage counselling is the process in which the married couple recognizes and reconciles or at least manage differences and repeating patterns of stress upon the marital relationship.

Basic practices of this integrated therapy-

1. The basic practices of marital therapy focus primarily on the process of communicating. There are 5 languages of love which help in communication of love to opposite person. We use a method called active listening which helps us to circle down the problem areas of relationship.

2. Another method used is called “Cinematic immersion”. Both these methods have one important thing in common- they help us create a safe environment where each partner can express feelings and hear the feelings of the other.

3. Emotionally focused therapy for couples or EFT-C is also used. This is based on attachment theory and uses emotion as an agent of change and target, both. Homoeopathic similmum meticulously selected facilitates the process.

4. Behavioural couples’ therapy is another method used. It is actually a proven way out of marital discord. This method focuses on integrating the twin goals of acceptance and change for couples in therapy.

The successful couples usually make concrete changes to accommodate the needs of the partner and also show greater emotional acceptance of the other.

Role of the homeopathy integrated counselling-

primary role is to listen, understand and facilitate better communication between the couple. Homeopathic remedy works on all 3 levels of existence and encouraging healthy perceptions of situation and feelings.  It also:

1. Provides a confidential tete-a tete, which normalizes feelings

2. Enables each partner to be heard and to hear themselves

3. Works as a mirror to reflect the marriage’s difficulties to the partners

4. Outlines the potential and direction for change

5. Delivers important information

6. Improves communication

7. Identifies the repetitive, negative interaction cycle that drives a problematic marriage as a pattern

8. Understands the source of emotions behind that negative pattern

9. Re-organizes these key emotional responses to offset the pattern

10. Creates new patterns of interaction

11. Increases emotional attachment between partners

When should you seek marital therapy?

1. When you avoid communicating or your communication has become negative- This usually means bad language, verbal abuse, and sometimes physical abuse.

2. When you or your partner have sought out other sexual partners – Marital therapy can save a marriage after an affair if both partners want and work out the kinks in their relationship.

3. Lack of intimacy in the marriage- This is the stage when partners just occupy the same space without communication, or exchange of feelings or touch.

Thus homeopathy helps in reconciling the broken marriages by healing the faulty perceptions and emotions which each person holds onto dearly.