Hi I am married from 2 years and still virgin because scared from pain. I found alprazolam 0.5 mg online and tried that. It helped me to relax and finally after 2 years I was able to insert 1 finger in vagina without pain, but unable to insert 2nd. Please let me know any other medication like vaginal muscle relaxant that can relax my vaginal muscles and allow 2 fingers in. My vaginismus is psychological but talk therapies won?t help me. I need other vaginal muscle relaxant along with alprazolam. Please help.