Can a girl be a virgin, even if the finger can be inserted deep inside. Before answering please read the detail? I tried to have sex with my girlfriend, but it hurted her a lot, so I didnt try so hard, after that I have done oral with her so many time. Whenever I push my finger, it goes easily deep inside. My full length middle finger was inside her, she says she is a virgin, how is that possible, I mean if she is virgin than the finger should not go that much inside. Should it? and please don't say that it is because of cycling and all sporty stuff, and her hymen has been opened, she was never that kind of a girl. When I tried to insert my penis, it didn't went even one centimeter inside, but finger goes easily. Better if a girl give a proper answer.