I got married 2 months ago and when we tried to intercourse we are facing issues. Earlier, she was having pain so we were not able to continue. Then slowly we used to do foreplay and tried to do again so it was better and my penis went half way through, but still she was not comfortable. Now the issue is that I am unable to maintain erection. May be I am stresses or what. It's erected bt then in between Its not that hard and its unable to go in. We both are frustrated and do not know how to enjoy out sexual life. At the end we always tend to masturbate. Kindly suggest. Also, need to know if pre cum can cause pregnancy. Now a days I feel even distracted by condom. So, I try to do with out it initially and then plan to wear it later. But as there is pre cur. A transparent liquid. Can it cause her to be pregnant? Need suggestions.

Dr. Bhagyesh PatelGeneral Surgeon16yrs exp

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Hello dear Lybrate user, hi Warm welcome to Lybrate.com I have evaluated your query thoroughly. Pre cum has sperms, it can cause pregnancy. Must wear condom in erected state before entering the vagina if wants to avoid pregnancy. The issue with both is frustration, performance anxiety. Just relax, look into each others eyes with love and confidence, understand each others likes and dislikes and then go ahead to perform the act. Understand sex more beyond the act of ejecting in vagina or hands. If you look it as an art, you will feel a unique difference sir. Plan candle light dinner, bathing in shower together and other acts which make you more intimate than casual acts. Hope this clears your query. Wishing you fine sex life ahead. Welcome for any further assistance at my private URL https://www.Lybrate.com/gandhinagar/doctor/dr-bhagyesh-patel-general-surgeon Regards take care.  

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