Hello Doctor, We got married 2 months back and We did intercourse twice but am not able to insert my peis in her vagina. Is it common or is it due to my penis is thick or her vagina is small. Do we need to do sex more frequently to make her vagina flexible. Please guide us. Also request you to suggest some medicine for good erection. Thanks in advance.

Dr. Rahul GuptaSexologist10yrs exp

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Hello- You both should do some exploring. Get a flashlight and a hand mirror so that you can examine your vulva. The labia are the inner and outer folds of the vulva, at either side of the vagina. At the top is the head of the clitoris, which is the female equivalent to a man?s penis. Most of the clitoris is hidden inside the body. It wraps around the vagina. The head of the clitoris is quite sensitive to touch and massage, but the rest receives sensation during penis in vagina intercourse, too. After the two of you have explored your vulva and identified all of the external parts, you should do some touching with your fingers. You both need to be able to find your parts in the dark. He should practice penetrating you with his finger. In order to make penetration easy you must be aroused. Playing with and sucking on your breasts, fondling your body, and rubbing your clitoris head gently are some of the things done in foreplay that cause arousal in a female. Your vagina and labia may get wet. If you get the feeling that you want him to penetrate you with his penis, he should lie over you. Use one of your hands on his penis to guide the tip to the opening of your vagina. Either of you can keep fingers on the penis as he gently and slowly pushes into the opening. There may be resistance at first. Take it slow. It may take several attempts. 

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