I'm 24 years old female and married in last year. Till now vaginal penetration has not occurred as I have extreme pain and soreness. We would simply stop once it becomes painful and won't do it for some days .bt again this repeats and now we both are frustrated and have completely lost the interest. I consulted Dr. and after examination suggested xylocaine gel and evalon cream. She said that it's due to my fear that there are muscular contractions which cause pain. We have tried fingering and single finger is painless but two fingers cause soreness. I would like to know if i'm having vaginismus and is it common. Is the pain i'm experiencing common for all women or is it painful in my case only?

Dr. ChandrakanthAyurvedic Doctor33yrs exp

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Hi, Don't take tension, sometimes it's natural to like strong and hard strokes, any way just you both of don't think about the matter of sexual pain. Be ready with both are interesting with peaceful and relaxing free mind n apply xylocain gel inner of penis n whole vaginal then start slowly penetrate the penis in vaginal with sweet foreplay step by step kissing nice doing. 

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Dr. Rabi Narayan SatapathyGynaecologist20yrs exp

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this is one type of very uncommon disease. You need to do seriel dilatation with adequate lubrication. try using any Vaginal lubricating gel like lubic, or vlg gel during sex. that will help you 

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Dr. GitanjaliGynaecologist23yrs exp

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You should consult a doctor ,after examination she will be able to judge wether pain is due to some pathology or its vaginismus. In most cases it's vaginismus. If vaginismus then you and your husband should consult a counsellor who specialises in sexual disorders. You will be advised relaxation and pelvic floor exercises. You can also use vaginal dilators.  

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Dr. Karuna ChawlaHomeopathy Doctor23yrs exp

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One of the most common primary causes of vaginal pain during intercourse is a dry vagina. Usually, when a woman is sexually aroused, fluids are secreted in the vagina that keeps the lining well lubricated. But if a woman is not sexually aroused, or if fluids are not secreted for some other reason, intercourse can cause very painful damage to the vaginal lining. And in some cases, the lining of the vagina can actually tear, resulting in post-intercourse bleeding. There are two ways to avoid a dry vagina during intercourse. The first is to avoid intercourse until you are sexually aroused. The second way is to use an artificial water-based vaginal lubricant another common cause of vaginal discomfort during intercourse is a bacterial infection. This occurs frequently in women, and you need to take treatment for that. A related problem is bladder infections. While the problem may be in the bladder or urethra, not in the vagina, it often causes discomfort during intercourse.  

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Dr. Inthu MGynaecologist8yrs exp

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Hi lybrate-user. Vaginismus may not be common but girls do not tell out. It has permanant solution. Contact me as soon as possible.  

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