I get nervous soon. I can not even approach to a girl properly. I start sweating. Dats d reason I think I have less friends. I am scared to show my best. I keep on hiding myself. I am sick and tired. I always think of doing great things. Which I am capable of. But my laziness pulls me back. I presently stay alone away from home and I am doing my vfx course. I feel helpless, alone and depressed. I need help to built up myself.

Dr. A.K. SrivastavaPsychologist10yrs exp

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Dear Lybrate user No one is perfect in this world Everyone get nervous at some point of life ,some get nervous during Exam, Some get nervous during fights, Some get nervous in front of teachers it only depends on our approach, so its natural phenomenon But it does't mean that it cannot be change ,as I mentioned earlier it depends on your approach only. Think anyone as, as human whether boy or girl. When you approach to any girl think that she is also like you don't give extra importance to this topic, its time to focus on your career ,when you will be good in your career then you will get confidence automatically, practice to talk with yourself in front of mirror it will increase your confidence, motivate yourself, set some topics for everyday and try to complete your topic in the given time it will boost your confidence as well as will help to complete your course. You can take help of any counsellor regarding this ,if you need my help you can contact me .good luck. 

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