Hi doc. My sis is 27 n she loving a divorced men who's 39 now and she willing to marry him.
And both r in love from 4 yrs, can they have a happy marriage life we are worried.

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Nobody can predict a happy married life. Nothing wrong in marrying a divorced man, but the real reason why his first marriage broke should ne ascertained. Also you can get a personality test/ evaluation for both of them to reasonalby predict if there is a maladaptive personality trait underlying as the mature man might project his good only and hide his underlying negative behavior, whcih we see very commonly. Also the age difference is huge, after 5 to 10 years there might problems with physical relationship compatibility. Still, if everything is fine, you can proceed, but be careful, we see more failures with these type of guys and double check everything. All the best.

Jagadeesan M.S. · Accepted Answer

Nobody can predict a happy married life. Nothing wrong in marrying a divorced man, but the real reason why his first marriage broke should ne ascertained. Also you can get a personality test/ evaluation for both of them to reasonalby predict if there is a maladaptive personality trait underlying as the mature man might project his good only and hide his underlying negative behavior, whcih we see very commonly. Also the age difference is huge, after 5 to 10 years there might problems with physical relationship compatibility. Still, if everything is fine, you can proceed, but be careful, we see more failures with these type of guys and double check everything. All the best.

Hi doc. My sis is 27 n she loving a divorced men who's 39 now and she willing to marry him. And both r in love from 4 yrs, can they have a happy marriage life we are worried.