Hi sir recently married but my wife doesn't take interest for sex. My wife suffering from pussy pain after and during sex. Kindly give solution.

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Use the xylocine jelly for external use.

Siddharth Vishwas · Accepted Answer

Use the xylocine jelly for external use.

Arun Desai · Answer

DYSPAREUNIA Dyspareunia is painful sexual intercourse due to medical or psychological causes. The pain can primarily be on the external surface of the genitalia, or deeper in the pelvis. CAUSES In women, common causes for discomfort during sex include 1.Infections. Infections that mostly affect the labia, vagina, or lower urinary tract like yeast infections, chlamydia, trichomoniasis, urinary tract infections, or herpes tend to cause more superficial pain. Infections of the cervix, or fallopian tubes like pelvic inflammatory disease. Tend to cause deeper pain. Atrophic vaginitis or vaginal atrophy which is a common condition that causes thinning, drying or inflammation of the vaginal lining in postmenopausal women Urinary tract infections, vaginal yeast infections, or sexually transmitted diseases like candida, herpes simplex or genital warts Cystitis or inflammation of the bladder wall caused by a bacterial infection 2.Malignancies of the reproductive tract, including the ovaries, cervix, uterus, or vagina. 3.Tissue Injury. Pain after trauma to the pelvis from injury, surgery or childbirth. 4.Anatomic variations. Hymenal remnants, vaginal septa, thickened undilatable hymen, hypoplasia of the introitus .retroverted uterus. Or uterine prolapse can contribute to discomfort. 5.Hormonal causes: Endometriosis and adenomyosis ,Pelvic masses, including ovarian cysts, tumors, and uterine fibroids can cause deep pain. 6.Pain from bladder irritation: cystitis 7.Vulvodynia: Vulvodynia is a diagnosis of exclusion in which women experience either generalized or localized vulvar pain most often described as burning without physical evidence of other causes on exam. Atrophic vaginitis or vaginal atrophy which is a common condition that causes thinning, drying or inflammation of the vaginal lining in postmenopausal women 8.Muscular dysfunction: For example, levator ani myalgia 9.Psychologic, such as vaginismus. Depression, fear, and anxiety which can affect sexual arousal and lead to conditions such as vaginismus, or vaginal dryness 10. Side effects of some drugs, Allergic reaction to clothing, or spermicides MANAGEMENT 1.GENERAL MEASURES A multidisciplinary approach, which includes psychosexual medicine, physiotherapy, clinical psychology and pain management teams, may be required. Modification of sexual technique and altering position may help to reduce pain with intercourse. Increasing the amount of foreplay and delaying penetration until maximal arousal will increase vaginal lubrication and decrease pain with insertion. Women may be concerned that their vagina is too small to allow entry of a penis. In response to sexual arousal, the vagina increases in length by about 35-40% and expands in width at the upper end by about 6 cm. 2 PHARMACOLOGICAL Vaginal infection may need treatment. Hormonal manipulation may benefit endometriosis. 3.SURGICAL Surgery is required for pelvic masses and sometimes to remove chronically infected tubes or to clear endometriosis or adhesions. Fenton's operation (to enlarge a tight introitus) may help. Removal of sensitive scar tissue bridge can be highly effective when there is pain following episiotomy. TREATMENT DEPENDS UPON THE UNDERLINED CAUSE The treatment of dyspareunia varies according to the cause: In case of dyspareunia which is caused by vaginal dryness, the doctor prescribes vaginal lubricants and may also suggest adequate foreplay. In case of infections and sexually transmitted diseases, the doctor will prescribe antibiotics. In case of allergies, the doctor may prescribe topical creams. For women suffering from dyspareunia due to hormonal problems, hormonal therapy may be prescribed. Surgical intervention may be required for women suffering from problems such as abnormal endometrial tissue growth or uterine fibroids. Psychological counselling may be required for women who have suffered from sexual abuse and trauma. 4 Exercising for Managing Dyspareunia 1.Stretch exercises which strengthen the pelvic floor can help immensely in doing away with the symptoms of dyspareunia. Practicing yoga regularly can help in strengthening and removing the tightness of muscles that can cause the pain associated with dyspareunia. Yoga can also decrease stress levels, anxiety, depression and boost your self-image and self-confidence. 2.The Kegel Exercise Practice the Kegel exercise for a week or two. Follow the steps given below: Contract your pelvic muscles. A) Squeeze and hold for 3 seconds b) Then relax for another 3 seconds. C) Repeat the exercise for as many as 10 times each session, until you can do around 15 repetitions. 4.Syncing the Kegel Exercises with Breathing Exercises Once you are comfortable doing Kegel?s exercise anywhere, sync it with breathing exercises: a) Focus on your breathing for a few minutes. B) Breathe in and out deeply a couple of times to relax yourself. C) Then inhale deeply and hold your breath for a few seconds while strongly contracting your pelvic floor muscles. D) Then exhale deeply and relax these muscles.

Sudarshan Kumar Sharma · Answer

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