My wife is 30 years old and she is an IT professional. We use to have time for sex only on Friday, Saturday abd Sunday. But she don't get discharged easily by intercourse. Either by oral sex gets discharged easily but by intercourse she don't easily get discharged. But she want to get discharged. During intercourse if her mind is diverted to any other thing then she don't even gets discharged. One problem is with is with me, if we do intercourse regularly 2 times in a day on friday saturday and sunday. Then on sunday some times my discharge time is very long ans because of this my wife gets pain and she feel very uncomfortable. To make her comfortable I then don't discharge using intercourse, I do it by masturbation. What should we do?
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ANORGASMIA Anorgasmia is the medical term for regular difficulty reaching orgasm after ample sexual stimulation. Factors that may affect orgasm Difficulty reaching an orgasm when you?ve managed to before can be a result of several things. Common causes may include: 1.Hormone changes, for example after childbirth or during�menopause 2.Not being stimulated enough 3.medicines (such as�antidepressants) 4.worries or fears about having sex 5.lack of self confidence 6.use of�recreational drugs 7.consuming too much�alcohol 8.vaginal dryness 9.relationship worries 10. Emotional distress. TYPES 1.Lifelong anorgasmia.�You've never had an orgasm 2.Acquired anorgasmia.�You used to have orgasms, but now have difficulty reaching climax. 3.Situational anorgasmia.�You're able to have an orgasm only in certain circumstances, such as during oral sex or masturbation or only with a certain partner. 4.Generalized anorgasmia.�You aren't able to have an orgasm in any situation or with any partner. TIPS TO INCREASE ORGASM 1.Seek help of doctor. Understand the cause of low sex desire and drive and recorrect it. 2.Speak the issue with partner take his help in the same. Develope the good sexual conversation and bond with the partner. Youngaging urself with partner in activities like massage and showering. Increase fantasies Romance acts in fore play. Recorrect any of relationships issues between both. Understanding the sexual needs and demands and participation. Chnaging places and sex positions .Arraning Outdating tours for the change. Experimenting different sexual activities. Changing environment in bed room. Sents aromatic products to improve mood. 3.Read Kinky and see some erotic books magazines and videos to enhance the mood singly or with the partner as your wish. 4.Improve physical and mental fitness with yoga meditation aerobics pelvic floor exercises etc 5.Correcting the nutritional deficiencies. Take Nutritious food and follow healthy life style to increase libido. Taking enough sleep. 6.Natural safe herbal libido enhancer herbal Suppliments and mood enhancers can be taken. Natural Herbs Ashwagandha Tribulus Shatavari Kapikacchu Ginseng etc The supplements rich iin Vit B complex L arginine co enzyme q 10 L carnitine calcium vitamin d 7.Stress management through mediation yoga Pranayam 8.Libido enhancing food stuff Chocolate Banana avacado almonds milk etc. 9.Develope emotional attachment with the partner. 10. Enhancing self belief confidence emotion interests. 11. Try different sex position which favours orgasm like missionary position doggy position etc 12. During�sex both should be focused simply on feeling the sensations of the stimulation. CLINICALLY PROVEN HERBS 1.Shatavari 2.Kavach 3.Ashwagabdha AYURVEDICTREATMENT 1.Kamakhya Rasayan. 2.Vrisha Rasayan. NOTE: TREATMENT DEPENDS UPON THE UNDERLINED CAUSE. I have very safe effective and natural management for low libido. U can Consult me for this problem I WISH U HAPPY HEALTHY AND PROSPEROUS LIFE AHEAD GOD BLESS YOU. R
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Hello- You both have different sexual thresholds that is why you both are unable to fulfil the needs of each other. There are two types of orgasm centre in females, one is inside vagina/G Spot, second is on clitoris that is outside the vagina. It seems your wife is facing G Spot insensitivity so she is not orgasming on insertional sex, but on the contrary she is responding to Clitoral orgasm during oral sex. It can be corrected with the help of medicines. You are too facing retrograde ejaculation after continues sex which can also be cured by the help of medicines and schedule changes.
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Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. Your both are experiencing performance anxiety issue due to the limitations of time in your mind. It's a pleasureable activity and you can't get into a timeboud pressure and that is the root cause. Better you both need a marriage or relationship counseling help clarify your doubts and importantly to manage your stress, unwanted thoughts and how to keep calm mind during your act. Be positive. It's an addressable issues with few mindsets change techniques and exercises, few self therapies and also by adopting few daily routines or lifestyle changes. Feel free to reach out to me online or through Lybrate private chat for further evaluation and recommendation. Be positive. You both will be alright soon.
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