I have been married for 7 months. I love my wife very much. We are married after relationship of 4 years. However, my problem is that I never equate love with sex. That's why I am finding problem in having intercourse with my wife. My erection doesn't lasting whenever I attempted sex with my wife. However when I fantasise or watch porn I can aroused. I feel stressed, sweating ,anxiety when I attempted sex with my wife. It cause me depression and also guilt as I love my wife very much. please advice. How should I overcome this.

Mr. Senthilkumar LPsychologist15yrs exp

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Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. Your problem is more psychological issues then any physical limitation. Its called performance anxiety. When your mind is filled with stress and anxious thoughts, automatically you will experience fear, inability, inferiority complex, guilty and other emotional distress. No worries. It's an addressable problem with certain mindset change or excersises or techniques. Consult a psychologists to discuss your problem in detail to understand different stress and anxiety management solutions. Feel free to reach out to me online for further assistance to balance your anxiety issues. Be positive. You will be alright soon.  

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