I am sex addicted. After Breakup I started watching adult video. And now I am regularly watching this video. I want to stop this but am unable to do that, My mind is diverted on that side every time?
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Anything that is not responsible, respectful or functional is really unhealthy for you. You need to be careful because porn may provide great sexual entertainment but it also stokes the desire, which will then lead to desire-fulfillment and that will lead to impulses. It actually objectifies women and sex to levels that make you lose respect for them. Besides, the whole thing is dramatized to such crazy levels of performance (that is why it sells too) that you are made to feel grossly inadequate. It is really far from the reality, and these are exceptional actors, with some exceptional endowments and actions that you may even look at your own spouse (later when you get married, that is) with disdain or inadequacies that are most unfair. After you have been stimulated you are left hungry in your groin to want to fulfill your desires, and if not met soon, leaves you with that raging libido, and it can goad you to do something inappropriate. In essence, it spoils a very beautiful thing and reduces it to mere physical impulses. After some time you get disgusted when you have had too much of it; whereas natural sex will never cause that effect at all. If you have so much of sexual energy you can channelize it into activities, sports, games, and hobbies. You need to distract yourself when the drive is very strong in you, which may be so if your levels of testosterone are very high too. You need to socialize with members of the opposite sex and enjoy their company to experience the different aspects of a woman and to also feel the different aspects of sex and not get frozen in the carnal part of it alone. Sex has five different dimensions to it: there is the physical aspect, the emotional aspect, the intellectual aspect, the social aspect and finally, there is the spiritual aspect. The latter may surprise you but this is where respect and regard for women and their bodies will come up to help treat them with value. If you cultivate these dimensions of sex I am sure you will perceive women differently and with a lot of respect. Eventually, when you are into a serious relationship with a woman, you will truly enjoy the whole concept of romance and being and falling in love with the real thing: That my friend will be a different ball-game. Do not play with a poor replica of sex, and shy away from the real person and thing, which are so wholesome.Â
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Negative effects of masturbation are given below: Semen is a life fluid. When we eat lot of healthy food for lot of days then it will create few amount of semen in our body. If you waste this semen just for fun then it will make your health dull and make you weaker. People those who masturbate can?t concentrate on work properly. Students who masturbate lot, can?t concentrate on study. Person who masturbate lot have low confidence. He or she can?t talk to other with eye contact. Masturbating lot also make your bones weak. Most of people can?t control their addiction and most of people masturbate regularly that?s why they told you masturbation daily is normal. But masturbation daily is harmful for you. The person who masturbate lot then in most of cases his cheeks started to shrink, narrow and go inside just like opposite of chubby. Pimples are natural in young age but those who masturbate lot pimples create big problem for them. They increase in number and bigger in size on face. Masturbation is the one main reason because of that teens are not strong physically and mentally. OCD is very common among those who masturbate lot. Those athletes masturbate regularly, usually don't win any games. And their sports career is short. Because regular masturbation reduce person stamina and power. Short tempered, anger and frustration are common symptoms of person who masturbate lot. Usually most people masturbate from their favorite hand and it make person's penis curvy and create bend in their penis. People those who masturbate lot, have not good social life. They mostly live isolated. Masturbation once a day can be cause blurry eye sight. Masturbation most badly affect joints. At the time of movement sounds like (kit kit) come from person, s joint's like knees and elbow is common in person who masturbate lot. Excessive masturbation is directly linked with Premature Ejaculation problem. 6 to 7 time masturbation in a week is also causes hair loss in men and women. Those who masturbate lot mostly have week memory. Excessive masturbation also causes mental illness. Â
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