Hello doctor. I'm a 21 year female. I've engaged in sexual activities with my boyfriend since about 4 months from now. But we are facing problem till the first day to enter my vagina. May be its too short to enter. Even the head of the penis is not entering properly. Can you please help me out.

Dr. Rahul GuptaSexologist12yrs exp

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Hello- its primary vaginismus. It is often experienced by women during their first attempt at intercourse. The male partner is unable to insert his penis into the vagina. He may describe a sensation like ?hitting a wall? at the vaginal opening. Treatment usually includes a combination of the following: pelvic floor control exercises: these include muscle contraction and relaxation activities, or kegel exercises, to improve control of the pelvic floor muscles. Education and counseling: providing information about the sexual anatomy and sexual response cycle can help the individual understand their pain and the processes their body is going through. Emotional exercises: this can help the person identify, express, and resolve any emotional factors that may be contributing to their vaginismus. Reducing sensitivity to insertion: a woman will be encouraged to touch the area as close as possible to the vaginal opening every day without causing pain, moving closer each day. When she is able to touch the area around the vagina, she will be encouraged to touch and open the vaginal lips, or labia. The next step will be to insert a finger.  

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