I have been married since one month ago and since then we are trying to have sex. Me and my husband we were both virgin. However, first attempt did not succeed and with time we try more but until now every time he penetrates me I get pain and feel his penis is not entering fully like there are burdens that keeps him from entering correctly along with burn feeling even when using durex play gel. And when we try doggystyle I do not feel anything only air enters and causes me queefing but no pleasure at all. Kindly help.
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Hello- you and your partner may be able to minimize your dyspareunia (pain during intercourse) with a few changes to your sex routine. Try being on top of your partner during sex. Women usually have more control in this position, so you may be able to regulate penetration to a depth that feels good to you. Communicate with your partner what feels good and what does not. Also, longer foreplay can help stimulate your natural lubrication and reduce the pain of penetration, as do synthetic lubricants.
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One of the most common primary causes of vaginal pain during intercourse is a dry vagina. Usually, when a woman is sexually aroused, fluids are secreted in the vagina that keep the lining well lubricated. But if a woman is not sexually aroused, or if fluids are not secreted for some other reason, intercourse can cause very painful damage to the vaginal lining. And in some cases, the lining of the vagina can actually tear, resulting in post-intercourse bleeding. There are two ways to avoid a dry vagina during intercourse. The first is to avoid intercourse until you are sexually aroused. The second way is to use an artificial water-based vaginal lubricant another common cause of vaginal discomfort during intercourse is bacterial infection. This occurs frequently in women, and you need to take treatment for that. A related problem is bladder infections. While the problem may be in the bladder or urethra, not in the vagina, it often causes discomfort during intercourse.
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