I am 17 year old boy. First time I release sperm at the age of 14 but after that I completely stopped it but in the last 3 months I released sperm many many times. someday I releases 4 times in a day. Last time I release on 18 feb but on next day my friend told me that early age sperm are very very necessary for deciding genetic factors of child such as memory power, concentration and learning skill. Then my friend have you ever released sperm then I said no but in real I releases sperm many time so from that moment I am in very depression related to my friends point. And I also google it and then on some sites my friends points I found correct. While releasing sperm I count its ejaculation time I found it is just 97 seconds. So q1) what should do next or right now? And few more questions is that q2) is releasing sperm affects height or not? Q3) when I release sperm sometime a huge sperm comes out like 4 times comes out and sometime and only once comes out? And from all this I can not concentrate on my studies please also try to tell me that what should I do next?
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What you are doing is called masturbation and nothing to worry about the same. There is nothing like early sperms healthy and all. Masturbation is a very healthy form of sexual outlet, do not feel guilty about it. Once or twice a day is very much normal. Nearly 99% of men and more than 60% of women masturbate. It starts from adolescence and goes on in some people even till death. The pleasure (orgasm) from masturbation is said to be unique from sexual intercourse. In men, most of the liquid contains only water and some fructose and hormones. Hence it does not drain your energy. Many equate masturbation/ seminal fluid loss to lack of energy, impotency and so on. Many quacks, religious heads and pseudo healers also propagate the idea that masturbation is a disorder/ and wrongful behaviour and instil fear on the mind of innocent men and women (we can see posters in train and bus stand, offering help for this behaviour). Consult a psychiatrist, if you have excessive masturbation guilt or compulsive masturbation. Compulsive masturbation is when a person continues with frequent masturbation neglecting his/ her other work like education, job or social obligations. In fact masturbation reduces the sexual tension and helps focus on task at hand better.
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Absolutely nothing. Your friend is sadly mistaken and this kind of misinformation can cause a lot of distress to youngsters. Please meet with a sexologist if you want an authentic information. There is no increase or decrease in height at all. Masturbation is not really bad; it is the addiction to it that is bad. Not even the number of years is a problem but the frequency and compulsiveness to do it is to be considered for its ill-effects. At your age you may feel it difficult and it can become addictive if you have alone time, if you obsess about it, and if you are not into relationships. The problem with addiction to this is that you may go on to prefer masturbation to heterosexual contact, even when you are married. That obviously would be an insult to your wife and will lead to a lot of conflict. Heterosexual contact is very wholesome and the physiology is made exactly for penile and vaginal contact. You will instead enjoy a poor replica of this and not know or care for the difference. The second thing that can happen with addiction is that it will become compulsive and will have no boundaries or limits, since it can be done all by yourself, whenever, wherever, and however too. The big problem a lot of children get into is the guilt around this. A useful way to discharge the energy is to get into contact games, or exercises, or even hobbies to channelize it. Also you should not spend too much time alone, and you need to keep your mind occupied with other interesting things and a lot of socializing. Even if you are not interested in marriage, for whatever reasons, it will help you to get into a friendship with a girl and enjoy the relationship where there will be a lot of excitement when you fall in love. Right now your hormones may be very active and your physiological apparatus is primed and ready for sexual stimulation. But because of your age and even otherwise it is important to develop good control and not feed into your impulses. Keeping yourself occupied and living a healthy social life are the keys to manage your sexual drives.
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