I am an unmarried male of 45 years. So far I did not have any sexual intercourse also. I am in the habit of masturbating since the age of 13 years. I am very shy and timid in nature. Quite often, I feel inferior about my sexual life particularly with the size of my organ which is near about 6 inches and thickness of around 1.5 inches. I feel my organ doesn't get erected properly for lesser time hardly for 5 minutes and there is also a fear that I may face erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation during my first sex. I consume ashwagandha tablets of himalaya drug company. Recently I came to know about himcolin gel, so I started using that gel 3 days before to make my organ stronger. Since I did not have any intercourse, so I am not sure whether I suffer from ed or premature ejaculation. So can I use himcolin gel, to make and keep my organ stronger. Will it be safe for me to use it without the risk of any harm. I have also heard about confido tablets, may I also start taking it with a view to keep maintained my sexual stamina. I am also not regular in physical activities and have been under treatment for mild depression for near about 12 years. I don't smoke nor I consume alcohol. Due to work pressure my diet is also not regularly rich enough. So I take some vitamin tablets as health supplements. Due to work I also don't do much physical activities. Kindly advice me what care should I take and also what supplements should I may enjoy my sexual life.