I masturbate one-two times daily and its really affecting my relationship with others and lack of concentration and focus. But from now on I want to completely stop it. I need some help or advices.

Dr. M S HaqueSexologist36yrs exp

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Dear Lybrate-user, as you know excess of anything is not good for health and physical fitness. Excess masturbation may decrease sexual stamina and weak the nerves of penis. Masturbation weakens the immune system, it can create constipation, it corrupts the digestive system, it disturbs the functions of the blood, it negatively affects hormones, it weakens the sex organs and pelvic muscles, it is a disease creator. Later you may start getting aches and pains anywhere in the body and diseases cropping up. It can cause depression, confusion, and remove motivation from deep inside you. Masturbation addiction can ruin the life and can also make a person unsocial. There are many psychological and physiological effects due to masturbation. It creates negativity. First of all you have to make you busy in some work or studies or else you can join gym also and avoid watching porn video .do meditation for mental strength daily to increase your focus and willpower to quit masturbation. Whenever thoughts of masturbation comes to your mind, replace these thoughts by good thoughts by saying or teaching your mind that these thoughts are not good for health and sex. Slowly and steadily, you will definitely win over masturbation. I understand your query. I advice you to go for private consultation as it will help me to give you better advice and suggestion.  

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Dr. Karuna ChawlaHomeopathy Doctor25yrs exp

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1. Identify your triggers to arousal and avoid them 2. Limit your exposure to pornographic material. 3. Stash sex-objects. 4. Limit your internet use 5. Distracting yourself-- do something else. Try to be as busy as possible during the day and night. Keep your mind focused on activities that do not stimulate your sexual fantasies. 6. Exercise. Exercise may help reduce sexual desires. If you masturbate to reduce stress at times, exercise is a healthy alternative because it releases endorphins in your brain which make you feel happier and less stressed 7. Keep your bladder as empty as possible. The urge to urinate can be mistaken by the body as the urge for sex/masturbation. Go to the bathroom before you go to sleep at night and immediately when you wake up in the morning. Even if you feel the slightest urge to urinate, relieve yourself as soon as possible. 8. Go to sleep when you are really tired. This way, you will fall asleep quickly after lying down in bed and not spend time in bed trying to fall asleep 9. Get out of bed immediately in the morning. When you wake up in the morning at the set time, get out of bed as soon as possible and avoid lying in bed awake. Such is a time when masturbation is likely to occur.  

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