Hi, I am 30 year old female. And I am 7 weeks pregnant. Recently, a best friend of mine had come home. She is a dental surgeon and a govt doctor who recently got promoted as an amo. We were friends from last 20 years. But, last time when she visited me for 4 days, we were talking casually as we used to talk earlier. Suddenly on the day she was about to leave, she started scolding me and my family for hurting her (but we don't know what have we done to her). Also, the next day, she tested me saying she's not ready to take more negativity from me and she wants to end the friendship. I tried to call her and messaged her saying we'll sort this out and what exactly is causing her the trouble but she's not responding or picking the call. She haven't told the reason what made her sad or during her stay at my place. I am unable to bear this betrayal! I always feel sad thinking I have lost a "best friend" of mine. How would I overcome this betrayal?
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You can never know which word of yours can hurt someone close to you. But nowadays there are a lot of positivity lectures all over the internet but all is not true. Maybe she attended some of those lectures and now sees you as a person who affects her negatively. Since she realised this after 20 long years but sure she has had some new lessons. I will say it's not your fault so please release the guilt. And you can talk to her whenever you meet her in future you will sure come to know what was the actual thing. Please be patient. I can assure you didn't lose anything. Just let it loose for sometime. Just think when we used to have a fight with our best friends in childhood. They always come back. Maybe when you are feeling betrayed she might be feeling sorry. Still she won't talk because of adult ego. Just need to wait for sometime.
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