Hiee . I'm 16 And I'm In XIIth Std. Appearing For My Boards . . So Its Like I Think As If I'm Shy, Timid, And Nervous From Inside . But The Real Thing Is That No One Knows That How Actually I Am From Inside ! I Want To Be Like Real Bold . .And Strong . . So That It Gives A Manliness Type Of Personality . .I Wear Glasses So Sometimes Ppl Think That I May Be An Idiot Type Of Person . . . But I Am Not Actually That What Others Think. Last Year In 11th Std. . . I Fell In Love With A Girl But I Never Talked To Her . . . .She Was Like . . I Cannot Define It In Words . . One Of My Friend Went And Said Her Everything . . We Had A Lot Of Eye Contacts Last Year . .Even Now Also That Happens Atleast Once In A Day . . I Totally Get Nervous And Feel Very Shy . .And Inconfident In Front Of Her . .Or Whenever She Appears In Front Of Me . . I Want To Be Like Real Bold . .And Strong As I Said It A While Ago . . What Should I Do So That I Don't Get Nervous Or Coward Type Of Something In Front Of Her . . Even When I'm Around Girls Or Women I Become Very Nervous . .I'm Like A Nuisance Or Irritation To Her . . What Should Do To Be A Bold And Strong Guy ? please Tell Me .
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You have a social development problem or the lack of it. Also, you cannot be too worried about what other people think of you to this extent. If they cannot see the inside of you, that is to your advantage. About meeting with this girl, nothing will happen if you do not approach her or at least talk to her. This is because of a fear of rejection: what if she says'no' to you! to develop a strong inside you must go and meet other people and deal with the emotion of fear about it. Attend a personality development course, conversation course, public speaking course, work out in a gym, and handling emotions with a counselor. You don't have to be strong really; you just have to be confident to some extent. Most boys have a problem talking to girls and you may not notice it just how others cannot notice your inner self. If you don't take the chance, you will never know if she cares for you and worse still, someone else may beat you to the game and she will be gone forever. The world will not end and you will not die, take the chance and if it does not work, you at least know and can move on.
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