Hi I am suffering from mental impotence. Its been 6 years now. I do not know when was the last time I had desire for sex. I am 26 years old and have already taken a lot of consultation through Lybrate and personally visited to many clinic. I have not left and psychiatrist, and sexologist to treat this issue. But no relief all. No physical problem. Very hard erection but there is no feeling and desire for sex. I am loosing my interest in girls day by day. My family is planning for my marriage and I am panic abt it. If it would have been any psychical problem it would have been treated. But seems all problem in mind which nobody is able to take care. Everybody prescribe anti depressant which is hell for me. Doesn't help at all. Can anybody help me please Any thoughts from clinical psychologist. Thanks.
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Hi lybrate-user Loss of confident in sex can be arised from strong misunderstanding and abuse of sex. Frequent matrubation will not create physical impotence but mental impotence or inferior complex or can be obssesive compulsory disorder and wrong advertisements, porn videos in Internet can initially give more satisfaction and gratification but you will not get gratification as the years goes on expectation exceeds you start to loose confidence. So if you have any fear first have a counselling in person with doctor and follow his advice. Thanks
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First thing, do not take any anti-depressants. Lack of desire for sex could be due to hormonal imbalance, which we have to exclude, before concluding that the defect is in the functioning of the brain. Get these three tests done immediately, if not done recently. 1. Serum Testosterone 2. Serum Prolactin 3. TSH If you are physically fit, then you can go for mental evaluation.
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