Never had sex with anyone, but masturbating for 10-12 year (since class 6). Suffering from premature ejaculation (ejaculates in 2-6 stroke during masturbation). Am I really suffering from P.E.?What should I do?

Dr. Sharath Kumar CSexologist41yrs exp

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Masturbation in Men :Myths, Benefits and harms. Masturbation is a kind of topic which is normally avoided by people as they consider it as a taboo. However, masturbation is healthy and completely normal sexual behaviour. There are so many myths associated with masturbation which are really not true. However, masturbating can have some adverse effects but a few. But, masturbation is not dirty and doesn?t make you less as a person, so don?t feel ashamed or bad about masturbation and activities related to it. What is Masturbation? Masturbation is a process in which a person derives sexual pleasure and satisfaction by stroking or rubbing his/her genitals by his/her hands manually and using sex toys. It is normally done solo but, also performed in relationships to get orgasm and sex arousal. It?s completely a normal activity of humans which has got no harmful physical and emotional effects. Masturbation has got so many benefits to human body and in the case of excessive masturbation it could lead few harmful effects. Myths about Masturbation: Masturbation minimizes sexual performance and libido later in life. Reduces the quantity of semen. Badly affects the quality of semen. Makes semen thin in texture making it watery. Causes blindness. Causes mental illness. Causes infertility. Causes growth of hair on palms. BENIFITS: Manages your premature ejaculation. Reduces the risk of Prostate Cancer. Makes you pelvic muscles strong to prevent erectile dysfunction. Improves sperm quality and motility. Helps your sexual intercourse to enhance by increasing your sexual longevity. Reduces nasal congestion during cold and flu. Reduces stress and depression. Enhances your mood. Helps to get good sleep for insomnia patients. Makes you aware of your sexuality. Enhances your immune system. Satisfies your sexual desire and strengthens your relationships. Controlled masturbation will not effect height. Eat more vegetables and fruits. Harmful effects: Can cause parasympathetic nervous functions which leads to over production of sex hormones and neurotransmitters which cause side effects like fatigue, memory loss, hair loss, groin pain and blurred vision. Cause obsessive compulsive behaviour like addiction to masturbation. Cause bruises if stroked too vigorously. Leads to hardening of the penis skin. Causes desensitized of penis skin. Can cause seminal leakage. Masturbation is nothing evil or sinful, so no need of getting ashamed of yourself. Rather it?s a matured sexual activity to keep yourself sexually active, sexually satisfied and your mind in control. It is totally normal and safe sexual behaviour for both men and women. It enhances your health in every aspect, but remember too much of anything can be real bad. So, do masturbate maximum weekly 2 or 3 times and be healthy and keep happy. Do not do more frequently.  

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Dr. Saul PereiraPsychologist46yrs exp

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Yes, you are but with masturbation. You are exciting yourself too much and it is likely that you may enjoy masturbation more than real sex with a partner. This much of indulgence in masturbation for 12 years could have made you dependent on it for pleasure and may cause extra response to stimulation. You should go for sex education and come to know a lot about heterosexual contact and how wonderful it is to really want to go for the real thing. There is nothing wrong with masturbation except for the addiction to it.  

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