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Asked for female, 30 years old from Bijnor

I got engaged 3 months ago. Arranged marriage. We talked for 4 months before the engagement. Few days after engagement my past relationship came up and things changed a bit. Now we don't talk like we used to do before engagement. Things get awkward sometimes. We both are trying to get past that rough patch but it affects me. I constantly miss how much we used to talk. I get irritated easily, lost 3 kg wt within 20 days and don't feel like eating, lost interest in my hobbies and few daily activities, have no motivation in the morning to get up and start my day, face trouble sleeping, feels like i'm emotionally dependent on him, thinks a lot that I am not good enough and nothing will be normal ever again. We msg daily asking how are you and if have you eaten anything but if no call for 2-3 days I start thinking that he love me less now. Earlier we used to talk daily on call/video call. I don't know what to do.

Dr. K V Anand91%(35289 ratings)

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy...read more

Psychologist•Palakkad

Dear user. The important matter is not to think too much. If you really want to be in relationship, go ahead and meet her and discuss future. Think less and act more.

Health Query

Could someone please suggest me how to deal with a narcissistic husband. Thank you.

Dr. Rajesh Choda93%(8779 ratings)

Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surge...read more

Ayurvedic Doctor•Zirakpur

Treatment for narcissistic personality disorder (narcissism) can be difficult but therapy can often help. Types of therapy include:
Supportive psychotherapy
Structured psychotherapies
Structured psychotherapies etc

Medications may also be used to treat narcissistic personality disorder, both allopathic and Ayurvedic.

Yoga, pranayam, meditation are of much importance. Once you motivate the pt start into this, there ll be rapid improvement.

Asked for female, 32 years old from Noida

Doctor I was married in 2014. My husband and I were leading a decent life. I was a little unhappy with my husband because he was not sexually compatible. He never spoke to me openly regarding sexual matters. We fought various times due to this reason. But gradually I got adjusted myself and everything went well. Then in 2018 a married man named atul came in my life he lured me with all those things which I expected from my husband. We came into a relationship and were physically bonded. He lured me to marry me he came to my house and told my husband that we loved each other. After a lot of problems and heartbreaks I applied for mutual divorce with my husband and its yet going on final date is on 8 july. Atul also applied for divorce from his wife. We both had covid this 20th april and after that now he is saying to me that he can not live without his previous life. He says his wife was better than me. He can not leave his parents and his previous life. And if he marries me he will not be happy. He earlier told me lies that his wife was not lovable just to trap me and when he succeeded in ruining my life now he is saying me all these things. My life has been destroyed. I am running through a divorce. I do not know what to do. I had also aborted one of his child. I can not live without him. I am all depressed and clueless. Please help me.

Dr. K V Anand91%(35289 ratings)

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy...read more

Psychologist•Palakkad

Hello and welcome to Lybrate. I have reviewed your query and here is my advice. I suggest telephonic counseling and online psychotherapy for you.
You can contact me for further advice and treatment options. Let me know if I can assist you further. Take care.

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Asked for female, 29 years old from Patna

I am having a strained marital relationship because of which I have lost interest in lyf I am nit living with my husband since one years due to our differences ours was arranged marriage three years ago I got emotionally attached wid my husband I still love my husband the most I sacrificed alot for him but he never reciprocated my love he never cared for me he was fever there for me in my lows my bad times he is self centred money minded selfish nd emotionless person but still I am emotionally attached wid him nd I am unable to get over him I cry everyday for him I want him back in my lyf as my husband we r not on talking terms ryt now he has blocked me on call nd watsaap which is adversely affecting my emotional mental nd physical health I feel sad lost interest in day to day activities feels worthless hopeless I feel I am good for nothing when I feel anxious about my lyf I don't know why I go through induced vomiting problem I feel lyk going to washroom again nd again nd pur my fingers in my mouth nd vomit nd increased urination increased thirst feeling of releasing stool by going to toilet repeatedly since 2019 I am having this problem I had arranged marriage in 2018 after that I fell in love nd when I didn't got that love back when I got emotionally attached wid him nd he didn't got attached or fell in love with me when I did everything to make him happy when I was there for him during hia financial crisis nd mortgaged all my jwelleries still he didn't developed any kind of emotional attachment or or compassion or love for him for him I don't exist in his lyf I don't to how to deal wid this emotional breakdown sometimes I feel lyk crying sometimes I retialate to my parents when they say something which I think its wrong which pinch me inside I want to lead a normal nd happy nd peaceful nd stable lyf but I am unable to do so on my own stress strain anxiety sadness emptiness is there ryt now I am on medication of a reputed psychiatric I am on lamitor od 100 mg two times a day betacap tr 40 mg petril md 1 mg atonil 10 mg qutan 25 mg nd prothiaden 50 mg I just want to know am I on right medication or medicine need to get changed or improvised also I gained weight in these two years I was 51 ryt now I am 70 kg I crave for food sweets due to depression I am having bulmania please doctor help me I need your valuable suggestions nd if medicine need to get changed or something please help me to deal wid this low phase worst phase of my lyf please doctor I need your help I will be helpful if you will give me suggestions nd advice md medicines.

Mr. Saul Pereira94%(49777 ratings)

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd, Transact...read more

Psychologist•Bangalore

You look like you are in a serious mess and on medication. I suggest that you meet with a marriage counselor and have some therapy for both of you. Even if he does not come, you must go for some help for yourself. Relying on medication alone is not enough. There is no point of loving him if it is not reciprocated and for that there must be some external help. Marital issues can be quite complicated and needs professional help. There are too many details which the counselor will get to know and t...more

Health Query

I have been harming myself whenever I have a fight with my boyfriend. Most of the time our perceptions do not match and I find it impossible to make him understand my part. I have never been like this but from past two years I have started losing control on myself.

Dr. K V Anand91%(35289 ratings)

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy...read more

Psychologist•Palakkad

Hello and welcome to Lybrate. I have reviewed your query and here is my advice. There is no need to win argument. Understanding each other is the key not winning on arguments.I suggest telephonic counseling and online psychotherapy for you.
You can contact me for further advice and treatment options. Let me know if I can assist you further. Take care.

2 people found this helpful

Asked for male, 28 years old from Delhi

I am 27 years old male person. I am over possessive for my girlfriend. Not able to focus on my career though I am a very studios person and not able to give time to my parents. It seems my life now revolves around her only and I can't see any other thing. I can't see her to talk with anyone else even though she is working.

Dr. K V Anand91%(35289 ratings)

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy...read more

Psychologist•Palakkad

Hello and welcome to Lybrate. I have reviewed your query and here is my advice. You should try not to be too possessive towards your girlfriend. I suggest telephonic counseling and online psychotherapy for you.
You can contact me for further advice and treatment options. Let me know if I can assist you further. Take care.

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Asked for male, 25 years old from Hyderabad

Hi .i am in a relationship with a boy for 5 years. But when I ask him about marriage he is not giving me clarity but he is telling that he loves me alot. I didn't understand what to do?

Dr. K V Anand91%(35289 ratings)

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy...read more

Psychologist•Palakkad

Dear user. I can understand. Please don't be panic but be serious about the symptoms. Consult your psychologist for physical investigation. Please provide more information so that we can start the diagnosis process and the treatment. I am here to help you in every aspect of your mental and physical health. Any sexual or psychological problems can be cured with the help of various methods and therapies. I suggest you to post your query with every detail here. I will help you in overcoming your pr...more

Asked for female, 24 years old from Delhi

Am in relationship with my boss from ten months .in starting I didn't liked him because of his selfish and lying behaviour after some time I was realizing that because of any incidence he is like that .with time we came closure .he was very nice and caring at that time we met regularly but we never had any serious conversation he even told me that he will tell his parents about it soon .i already told mine in the beginning .but after some time because of some incidents I realizing that he came in relationship because he wanted someone to trust for work and because we were of same caste so there will be no problems in marriage .now hewasnt caring at all .we rarely meet and when we do he always on the phone with his clients or just scrolling in internet .even he never takes opinions of mine in personal or professional things .i feel that we are not on same level in professional so he doesn't respect me or give importance to me that much. He keep billing with me like my boss but I never do because I always thinks it's not my thing to keep a record of money in relationships. One day I found he was talking to his female friend who wasn't talking with him like a friend but like a girlfriend we was talking general things but I guess he shouldn't talk to these type of girls so even we had a breakup for 12-15 days .he didn't even talked me about it I solved everything on my own because I have fear of loosing my people. One day I went with my friends at birthday party in late night he hug in wrong way it was live on instagram so my bf also knew about it he was very angry but I told him everything but still now I feel he don't trust me. One day I prank on him and he breakup .after 3 days when I realized he is serious about it I called and solved. So one day I asked for 3 things 1) agreement for professional things .personal and professional things separate no fight will be related to another 2) trust and communication should be here 3) he needs to tell his parents about our relationship after lock down he broke up by saying he can't handle me and he is sick of me. 7 days we weren't talking .every time we broke up I suffered mentally. On 7th day he messaged me randomly and somehow we started talking again. He was talking to some random girl on social media he didn't knew her personally he didn't wanted me to know about it but somehow I knew .he told her he is committed but still he talks to her .i want to know why .can't he talk to me? I even ask him if he is hiding something but he nodded one day he told me he will only be in this relationship if I will support him in professional life otherwise not .i want him to support in my new business too but he will not am not gonna breakup .it hurt me like hell today too. Today am realizing he do not respect love me or don't give respect me that much sometime I feel he try to manipulate me too .i even realize this relationship is a business .if I leave it doesn't affect his business but my presence adds some help to his business .i don't know if he will trust me. Or openly talk to me ever .or will we ever be like normal couple who are madly in love each other .one of our mutual friend says he will do after marriage can I trust that he will change after marriage. I thought should I make more efforts for this relationship or what should I do I was a happy person but now because of these thoughts am suffering from mental breakdown I can't even talk to anyone .because I don't have anyone to talk about .me and boyfriend can do a lot together but may be because of his ego he want to be superior always. What should I do? I don't wanna breakup because I guess there will be any solution?

Dr. K V Anand91%(35289 ratings)

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy...read more

Psychologist•Palakkad

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Asked for female, 21 years old from Delhi

We fight a lot and its being frustrating with him sometimes and I love him a lot but due to his some behaviour I found myself thinking to leave the relationship. Please help me.

Dr. K V Anand91%(35289 ratings)

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy...read more

Psychologist•Palakkad

Hello and welcome to Lybrate. I have reviewed your query and here is my advice. There must be reasons for the fights between you and your boy friend.
I suggest telephonic counseling and online psychotherapy for you.
You can contact me for further advice and treatment options. Let me know if I can assist you further. Take care.

Asked for female, 28 years old from Jammu

Hi me and my husband was in love when we were married but now I do not know what happened between I am the only earning person in the family he did not earn that's why our marriage is facing so much.

Dr. K V Anand91%(35289 ratings)

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy...read more

Psychologist•Palakkad

Hello and welcome to Lybrate. I have reviewed your query and here is my advice. These kind of problems do exist in many families. I suggest online family counseling for both of you to sort out the issues and I assure change. I suggest telephonic counseling and online psychotherapy for you.
You can contact me for further advice and treatment options. Let me know if I can assist you further. Take care.

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