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MBBS

General Physician•Mumbai
I will suggest you to do pranayam daily as per your capacity for a minimum of six months and increase your self confidence and concentration
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Possessiveness is my problem. I was loving a girl since 2 years but she doesn't. If she love, marry someone I can't control my feelings. I brutally fixed my mind to have her in my life. I really love her more than me. But I'm a good friend to her. Practically she doesn't marry me as she knows. She doesn't love me anymore. So if she will marry someone how can I be calm. Although it will be single side love but the possession makes me to be in severe depression as I'm emotionally week too. I hv some girls in my fnrs. And the tendency to talk with new girls before 5,6 years when I'm new to Facebook made me bad to her mentality (50% rsn for not loving me) And I have changed, do not even like any girl. Actually she is a girl who wants one who does have responsibility and intelligence more than her. But I really care and love her *what makes me (tons of possessiveness) to be happy if she is happy with someone else* Please advice. Thanks.

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Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd

Psychologist•Bangalore
First of all you cannot possess a girl you don't even own. You must have a lot of problems with relationships to get so enamoured in a one-sided affair. Secondly, if you love her more than yourself, you are not only trouble but you could become harmful to yourself too. No girl will want someone who is so crazy about them: they will literally run away from you. This is an important change you must make and I suggest you meet with a counselor for this purpose and as well as to help you emotionally...more
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BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy...read more

Psychologist•Palakkad
Dear user. I can understand. You are YOU. Whatever your behavior today, whatever your body language today are learned from your past experiences and social interactions. Whatever you have learned can be unlearned or over written. This is a continuous process happening throughout your life. I suggest cognitive behavior therapy for you. Take care.
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MBBS

General Physician•Mumbai
I will suggest you to do suryanamaskar pranayam daily as per your capacity and increase your self confidence and concentration and remember its better to forget him and whatever happens on its own it is always for the best for future
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Psychologist•Palakkad
Dear Lybrate user. I can understand. Loosing someone dear and near causes grief. Grief leads to disappointment. Grief related disappointment manifests symptoms as in the case of depression. But disappointment symptoms are far shorter in duration than depression. These symptoms will vanish in some days or weeks. Don’t worry. Physical exercise, outdoor games, entertainment, hobbies etc could help you divert your attention. I suggest cognitive therapy. Take care.
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Asked for female, 38 years old from Guwahati
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BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy...read more

Psychologist•Palakkad
Dear lybrate-user. Thanks for the question. Your husband and you had a quarrel after the child birth. That made a huge gap between you and your husband. Now he is not having any physical contact with you but truthfully do the duties of husband, father. This is not a typical case. Such cases are common and you have confess whatever happened if you are wrong at that time. I suggest family counseling for you and your husband. Take care.
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