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I (bengali girl) am in a relationship with a boy who is bihari for 4 years. I love him and crazy for him. He also loves me but he is not crazy for me. He doesn't understand my feelings. Most of the time if I tell him my problems then he tells me that he can't do this to impress me or to show off me or forcefully to make me feel happy. If I break up with him ,after 2 days he gives me calls and says that he will solve everything and will do all of the things ok. But after some days he comes back to his original form. If I treat him the same way as he treats with me he 1stly faces problems and asks me that why do I do this with him and then if I continue he always shows his egos and attitudes and acts like nothing happens. He doesn't understand his faults or sometimes he realise his faults and temporarily changes himself but not permanently. He is very much crazy for his parents and family but is not crazy for me in the same level. What should I do? Please help.
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leave him. he is there for his ego. nature can not be changed if you ready to accept him the way he is go ahead
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There is a communication Gap between you two. Sit and talk face to face. Try to know each other, one's likings and disliking. Everybody has his own personality and we have to adjust with that person while knowing his limitations?. Not a serious issue. Convey your feelings strongly. Sort out your differences.
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