My son aged 12 years reading in Class-VI. Basically he is very obedient in nature but he is very unmindful and sometimes he is alone thinking something else and that's why he could not concentrate in reading and he is very slow learner despite his vigorous labor. He is not interested in sports and other physical activities. He has god gifted singing talent. He usually likes to sit alone. He could not adjust with friends in school properly. He is shaky in unknown areas and could not respond promptly. We the parents are very much anxious about his marks at School and his lonely behaviour. Please let me know whether there is any Education Therapy or any counseling is required for him. If it's required then please tell me how much time will be required for that as we are living at Silchar far distance from Guwahati. Please let me know whether this treatment is available at your organisation.
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Lonliness is a significant problem that can have long term negative consequences for anyone, especially children. Children who are lonely often experience such problems just like you mentioned i.e. Poor peer relationships, lack of concentration, boredom, sadness and alienation. They usually feel exvluded and it makes them very unconfident. Its imimportant for the parents to observe the child carefully. Conflict between parents can make the child feel depressed and withdrawn which in turn leads to loneliness. Other factors like low self esteem, shyness and anxiety. Support is what the child seeks from both parents. Keep a happy environment around. For more suggestions, kindly contact to discuss things in detail.
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At least you have identified his great skill in singing. so you must explore that extensively to build self-confidence and to develop this area. This is an Early Adolescent stage and any manifestation of problems like these are indicative of some serious that needs the attention of a professional. There may be some developmental issues and/or genetic that needs immediate attention. If you do not attend to it now, it will disappear and make it appear that there is nothing wrong. That is a deception. It will come again in mid-adolescence seeking a resolution. If you do not solve it then it will come again finally for the last time in late adolescence. If at that time you do not resolve it, the child will enter adulthood with permanent negative traits that lead to a breakdown and cause even personality disorders. The more it is delayed, the more severe can be the effects.
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