My friend studying third year. When she was alone in her home, her neighborhood boy two years younger than her was seduce her and doing intercourse more than one year. She lost her virginity with him. How can handle this problem?Now she is in depression.
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It's time to accept what ever happened because making relationships and physical relations is not bad thinks but if you think that it's was a mistake then it's serious problem so I would suggest you to try to write down each and every thing on paper and try to realized that it's was not a sin because what ever happened it's by mutual concern so just remembered this incidence as a memory and go further in life, I know it's not easy but if you try it will become easy so try this and if your feel nothing after this than consult any hypnotherapist he will help you. Take care.
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Dear lybrate-user, Sexual relationships should be mutual between two consenting adults. If she was seduced by this man and they were involved for more than a year then it was probably consensual. But I would not like to assume that. I would like to understand more from you and your friend. Is she feeling guilty about losing her virginity to a man before marriage or it is that they have broken up and are no longer in a relationship that is bothering her? Either way, from what you have mentioned it seems that she had been traumatised or is being unable to cope with the current situation. I would strongly recommend counselling, a good psychologist or counsellor can help her. You can advise her to expressively write all her feelings down on paper and let the emotions she is feeling be expressed. Not to bottle up her emotions. Also, I would be happy to help if she would like an online consult. Hope she feels better soon.
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