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My wife 37 years old, after 8 years marriage life and we do not have kids, last november16 she quit the job due to affair allegation created by her male colleague wife and after that she quit the job. She is not having any contacts her previous office staff. From March'17 onwards she feeling sad about these unnecessary situations and she is feeling depressed with dark cycles under eyes. Still.I have full trust on her, But past 7 months her behavior is changes as follows like. 1.She is not talking so much. 2.She will give answers to questions only. 3.She is not interested in sexual life and even not allows to put hand on her body itself. 4.Her mood swifts. 5.She will shows excessive angry on me. 6.She felt because me she got this situation ,she felt I am not taking care her, but I taken care so much. But this thing left in her mind. 7.She watches TV in dark light. 8.Some times, She will cry her own itself. 9.She will look walls .10. We have our own small office but she is not interested to take care. 11.She wants to go to office in outside. 12.Some times she feel she wants live with her parents by doing job. 13.Some times she wants come out of from all problems and need to live happily with me. 14.If I start asking question regarding change in attitude and behavior she shows excessive anger ,irritation on me and also she beat her head with her hands. 15 .Past one month I stopped to give advice and now she is calm now. 16.She is asking time upto jan'18 to start new life. 16.For that she is not taking any steps to change her attitude and behavior. 17.She will cook for me and will taking care for me on food section part. 18.She is refusing to meet psychiatrist. 19. She will speak normally to all ,but she never initiate first talk with us. 20.I am handling situation patiently. 21.Some times, She feels and cry about for me about this situation .22. She will respect me as a human being, because of helping nature to her family but as a husband she feels because of me she forced in this situation. 23.Her thinking to try herself to come out of this but she is not taking any steps. 24.In case of affection I taken corrective steps but she is telling you changed now be as it is previously like you behave. Now I am being like this, Dr. I request you to suggest me to come out of this situation. She is my life. Pl help us.


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