I got engaged now. It was arranged. I was not ready but still I agreed seeing my parents tension. Now I can not talk or adjust with the person. I am sleeping a lot and having abnormal eating. I lost interest in everything and I am sad in ruining a person's life. He is always sad seeing how I behave and treat him. I do not want marriage but now my parents and relatives are saying its too late to say no. I do not know what to do. I was in love with my colleague and I said its not going to work out and agreed for the marriage. He was also my friend before. So still I contact him sometimes. I am feeling regret talking to him so I do not talk anymore. Nowadays I do not talk to anyone much. And when my fiance call I am having too much pressure anger and sad. I wish I could make him and my parents happy but I am scared.
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No, that is itself the wrong intention and objective. You should marry to please yourself first. It is better to cancel an engagement than a marriage. You could have a frank talk with your fiance and tell him the truth about your BF. Ask him to help call off the engagement for some reason. You should have mentioned about yoru BF before you got engaged but it is not too late even now. If your parents are not willing to change thier minds, you could still approach some elder relative to broach the topic and even if that fails to garner support then seek the help of a marriage counselor who I am sure will intervene. Do not go into a marriage so unhappily and unwillingly. Perhaps, you could show this reply to see if they are even slightly amenable to the idea.
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