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This is related to my 4 years old daughter. I have been staying with my in laws since her birth. I had quit job during pregnancy. My in laws have been very kind n helping n they have raised my kid. My Mother in law insisted me on taking a job when my kid was around 10 months old, I started studying n preparing for interviews, meanwhile she started to take care of my kid full time n would say me not to worry. Later when I started working n kid was around 1.5 years old, she started to take her to sleep with her when I was still breastfeeding. Kid used to wake up mid night n cry n I have attended her, one mid night I felt like my mother in law was trying to breastfeed her. She covered up n I was made to believe everything was usual, my husband also convinced me that I?m thinking too much. My kid is extremely attached to her. We moved onsite later when my kid was 3 yrs. And now when I have second baby, my in laws came here. All these my daughter used to be with me, obey me. Now when they have come she sometimes says she has 2 mothers or my mother in law is her mother n she sleeps with them n is always after them, does?t come to me. Inspite of objecting they provide her the sweet candies, chocolates, juice, Mobile. N everything she demands which I limited. So now my daughter tells me to go to work or stay late outside if going for some work. And my mother in law accidentally admitted to me that someday she tried to breastfeed my kid years ago. I?m shattered, I feel like there is a distance created between me n my daughter, feels like my kid does not need me. I do not have support nor can share this to anyone but every single day n night I?m going through this pain not knowing how to handle this. Moreover I have 10 days old baby with me now to look after. Please help me.


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