Hello, I am 35 years old mom of 2 kids, 4 and 10 months old and work from home for 6 hours and our Mother-in-law lives with us. From last few days I am feeling low as I have to work (job) and take care of kids and whole household work as younger need some 1 with her for whole time so MIL usually sit with her only and I have to give everything to them on bed with work (job and household). In end of day, I am tired. And my hubby did not help in anything. My husband is doctor and they have to attend conferences, whenever he goes to conference one of his colleague girl is with him always. They both always go together on conferences and one day she fell ill she asked him to come to his place which is 2 hours away from our place. I and my MIL did not let him go. After 3-4 days, we had fight, then my hubby said I am restricting his life as I did not allow him to go out. Even he joined my name with one of my friend who passed away 4 years ago. I feel so low that sometimes I felt why I gave birth to 2nd kid, my life was btr with one only. My hubby assured me that I can quit job after 2 and kid and now did not allow to leave. He even in fights told me 25k hi toh earn karti ho. Itna shor kyu machati ho. As if work with kids is nothing. And when I told it was my mistake to give birth to 2nd, he said I need counselings, as I am suffering from depression. My question is that if I need counselings or he or we both need marriage counselings as I am in having abusive (verbal abusive) relationship so should end up this relation but not able to take any step due to 2 kids. Please advise.