Hi. Actually I love someone and he loves me too and we want to marry each other but my parents not agreed due to caste and job issue actually he earns 20000/- month but I know I will be happy with him. I don't know what to do to convince my parents. because I think understanding matters between two person rather than money but my parents says money matters and I can't live without him please help me I am in big stress please help me for that.

Dr. Saul PereiraPsychologist47yrs exp

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Money does matter but not to the extent that it becomes the be-all and end-all. Love is not enough. There are too many stresses in life and cash shortage can be a huge problem at that time. It is one of the identified contributors to end a marriage. Why is he not talking about his promotional chances, job changes, and further education to improve his prospects? To a large extent the caste and other matters may be overlooked but your sustenance is dependent on your incomes. so have a frank talk with yoru BF and make a sensible decision. Talk to your parents about the prospects to sway their opinion in your favour. 

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