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My lover got married 3 months back, he was already engaged when we fell in love and his marriage is intercaste love marriage. He promised we will be together whole life. Ours is long distance relationship. We don't meet. The kind of love we experienced was soulmate kind. But after marriage he is not giving me any time. Makes me wait for hours to reply a message also. No phone calls no video calls. When I ask him he says he wants to be forever with me. But I don't have time- is the excuse he gives. I am feeling so depressed. He also loves his wife and is happy he agrees. He had stopped me from contacting him after evening and on weekends. I love him madly n he also strong says he loves me. We share only emotional love after his marriage, no physical love even in chat for moral reasons. I can't understand what should I do? What he wants. Please help. I feel I will die without him but I even can not live the way he is treating me.
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Extra marital emotional binding is common and misconstrued by many. I can understand the situation of both of you. But since he is newly married, you have to give him time and if you want this relationship to continue your interaction with him shouldn't jeopardise his marriage. After some time things will balance out and both will have more time, I hope. All the best.
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