I am a 28 year female. My best friend and I have been friends for the past 10 years. As a friend, she treated me more as a sister and cared for me on every manner possible. I did my level best to do whatever possible to be with her. However, whenever I used to be with her, I feel that my freedom is missing, no space. At times, I am unable to concentrate. Difficult to make her things understand and we would do whatever she says. Everything is fine when we stay separately, can't stay together. Taken a toll on her as she doesn't want to. By staying alone, I feel relaxed, can work without tension. With her, it gets difficult. Getting blamed for everything.
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Hello, Thank you for sharing your concerns. I understand as friends you do share a lot. And as you said she treats you as her sister. But there are times you put a lot of effort to be with her and feel that freedom is missing, and at times you get blamed for everything. See we as humans don't feel that if someone blames for everything without our fault. We feel that other person doesn't understand us and rather we start avoiding that person. And when I avoid that person I will be happy, relaxed.But make sure that is there miscommunication which is happening in your relationship. Also feel free to talk to me if you have any query. Take care.
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