I think I have OCD problem. I had a friend whom I thought of marrying but it didn't work and then later we both married different people. All this happened 8-9 years ago. We are not in touch anymore after the separation. And now I frequently get thoughts that she may threaten me, she may file compliant against me etc all weird thoughts. Not sure how do I console my self and think that nothing like that is going to happen and it's just hypothetical in nature.