My parents always says me that other children are better than me. They stay sad always for my deteriorating performance. I am a teenager preparing for neet. I always end up shouting or crying behind closed doors but I cannot understand what is the actual reason. Please help.
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Hey lybrate-user. This sounds so hurtful and frustrating for you. When we hear a narrative long enough, we begin to attach ourselves to those ideas even if the reality is far different from it. Probably reaching out for therapy and talking how these comparisons have affected you and the way that you perceive yourself over the years, is going to be beneficial for you. Therapy will provide you with a safe space to explore the emotions that have come up for you and help you understand the why and how of these behaviour pattern to step out of this cycle. You can reach out to a licensed therapist in your city, or you could reach out to us at heartitout.in/book-a-session to book an online session. Hope this helps! take care :)
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I think that a lot of such messages may be said by your parents that will have an impact in your life. You must go to a counselor and take them with you and discuss your problems. At the age you are, these statements will have far reaching impact. You will need counseling to work on your emotions and hope that nothing else is the matter. Comparisons are not god for any child and because you are in late adolescence, this will be your last chance to resolve the same. But if you are determined you can change the world and your life.
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Dear Lybrate user, high academic percentile is a dream for parents which they dream for there children. So understand there point of view also. Probably they are in some financial condition which they don't want to discuss with you. Anyway you can consult with a counsellor to discuss your issues in details. Meanwhile -focus on your studies -pranayam and meditation will help you -stay hydrated -have nutritional diet take care.
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Everyone is unique and have some unique things. First of all stop thinking so much. It's not something such big that you are thinking about this only neglecting other beautiful colours of your life .don't think about anything just focus on your studies once you will succeed then all this thing will become useless .you should focus on broader perspective. Life is full of black and white colours ,its not black or white. So every one faces both black and white states of life. Solution ,problem everything lies in ourself only what requires is to point out this and to develop the capacity to deal with every type of situation and any professional can help you in this .if you need my help you can contact me. Take care.
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Someone somehwere will always be dissatisfied I know they are your parents so its sad but you can prove them wrong and more than anything prove yourself so do not lose hope consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling all the best.
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