My wife lost her mother and father in less than one year. We both married dec/2019. She always feel depressed, anxious and goes extreme when angry. She is in constant fear of loosing her own life or her only elder brother or his son's lives. Though she is extremely caring about them but they have big dispute among them and not in talking terms she was suggested to take sleeping pills and nexito tablet and it was working on her but she stopped that too. I believe she needs consultant more than a medications.
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Dear Lybrate user, it must've been hard for her to lose her parents in such little time. Greif is involved with very powerful and uncomfortable emotions. Depression and her anxiety are very understandable. I would recommend therapy or counselling. It will help her out. Even though all these emotions are very distressing grief counselling is necessary and releasing of these emotions and helping her coming to terms with such trauma is necessary. Counselling or therapy is necessary. Please consult a psychologist, if you need help you can contact me or any other psychologist near you. It will help. A supportive environment is also necessary and can help.
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It is terrible for a person to be in a situation your wife is, losing both parents in such small span of time explains what she must be undergoing,please ask her to continue with her medications it's important for her.your role in such situation is most important you have to be very patient with her.time heals everything though it takes a part of a persons self learn to encourage her to do new things so she could distract and gets something else to concentrate and invest her energy in being positive. as both the siblings are undergoing the same loss ask her or you can intervene and talk to her brother to be together and be strength to eachother. a little tolerance and lot of patience from both the siblings can help them cope this situation. fear of death of loved is understandable in her situation,ask her to consult any counselor if she needs to talk to someone openly.that can help. ask her to do relaxation exercises. stay positive
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Yes, counselling and therapy will help to medicines.
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It is quiet normal response of being a human to be fearful and expected the unusual things. I met one of my client who had lost her parents in childhood than her grandmother and paternal uncle took responsibility of her upbringing.Near her marriage she had lost her grandmother and after marriage the paternal uncle loss. She is now a mother of one year old son. She is always rude with others, hardly smile and angry. She always worry about losing her husband and son. She was in extreme grief.Symptoms increased after the birth of a child due to harmonal change and responsibility.I have taken her three sessions of CBT with existential therapy and now she is living her life with a smile and happy mood. The generalized anxiety vanished. She is independent for handling her emotions.Medicine only give a short term relief and more dependency. Better search for a Cognitive Behavior Practitioners who can take one to one session.
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Dear Lybrate user to loose both the parents in a short span is really heartbreaking. Your wife needs counseling along with medicines, infact counseling will be more effective in this case. Just by saying someone to be positive, doesn't really help unless the person is trained how actually to be and feel positive. This can only be done by regular counseling and certain therapies. She is in trauma and needs to come out of it. I would suggest you to seek counseling for her as soon as possible.
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Dear user I can understand your concern about your wife’s health she is in the stage of grief or may be denial, without having a proper conversation with her I am not sure about that, but medicines are not a proper solution for such kind of problems. Don’t be so tensed, relax there is a solution for every problem. I can understand her physical and mental health but I need all the details regarding her problem. And the main thing is her awareness about her problem. Counseling is a perfect solution towards her problem. With the help of counseling we can make her strong internally, make her understand to develop her insight to fight her negative thoughts, with the help of therapies she will be able to understand the things in a better way, I want to talk to her for details, please book her consultation session so that I would able to help help you better add some more activities to her routine, improve her friend circle, her life style, her diet etc and take a good care of her emotionally. You can call me at mobile, thanx.
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