Hii ma'am/sir from last few months I feel very stressed out my mind is fucked up because I like a girl who is my friend and I even take care of her. She really means a lot to me and even I use to remember everything about her and she is a part of our group but she is in a relationship with some other guy and she somewhat knows that I like her. She use to appreciate me sometimes but she don't love/like me we are just friends but I have feelings for her and by telling her I don't want to loose my bond with her. And I want to get rid of this as soon as possible. I feel myself attached to her. I feel good when she is around me. I want to make a peace out of it and make my mind stable. please help me out what should I do to get rid of it.
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Hi, relationships at times are like rocking boat. It works well if it is two way and if people are compatible. The best solution in any relationship difficulties is to open up communication, be honest and respect other person views. Be willing to accept rejection or acceptance then only distress will subside.
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Take more time. Give yourself time. Let the feelings unfold in a natural way. U may find a completely new version of yourself in the times to come. And new vision towards life and towards this relationship may unfold with the passage of time. Lf you will show patience and willaccept the way things will unfold in the days to come.
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In such a scenario, it's a hard thing to convience yourself to do the right thing. But, in long run that will be helpful .so, let your feelings ne known to her and if she reject, accept it so that you won't have a feeling of not giving it an attempt eventually. It's always better to try and lose than accept defeat before trying.
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Hello, the concerns which you have are distressing but is not uncommon. If you are feeling that these thoughts are causing much problems in your day to day life, it will be a good option to discuss your issues with a psychiatrist/psychologist over multiple sessions. All the best.
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Since she is relationship with another person it is not right to have feelings for her as a girlfriend. Be friends with her for now, you never know how these relationships transform. Focus on your education/ career and don't let this spoil your future. Good luck.
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First off, talk to this girl you are mentioning. Your discussion should be frank and candid. You should let her know that you are truly in love with her and would like for her to be your girlfriend and then wife in the future. If you are not able to do this you should cut off all relationships with her starting from phone calls, messages (sms or other social platforms like whatsapp, facebook, etc.). And then you should move on. If she just wants to be friends with you she is manipulating you despite knowing that fact that you have more sincere caring feelings for her to the point of wanting her to be your life partner. I hope you understand. Depending on what she answers either stay or move on. Be bold, bolder than her. You are more than welcome to consult us online here on Lybrate privately via text or audio consultation. Contact the Lybrate staff for more details.
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