Hi sir/madam, This on behalf of my friend who am I want to marry her. In her past life she had a love with other person. When they're in love he got married with other girl by force of his family. Unfortunately he had distill myopathy, so his wife given divorce to him. And he stated to my Friend that I loved you and I leave her with the same reason. And they are in love back but she wants to help him and settle his life. I explained her the way of problems you have to face if y want to Marry him. After that she left him. Now presently I want to marry her and she is my childhood friend. And our families are friends . From my family side I made accepted for her to marry. Now she is saying that if I marry you I feel my self awkwardly if he this my ex knows. And I am preparing her to change her wrong thinking thoughts. I dint have this is as a problem to me. Could you please suggest her whom she should marry . Whether I would be or else her parents decided? Could you please suggest to her the best way and let us know your clinic information if it's required to take counseling on this. Your suggestion makes a beautiful life for some one.
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Hi lybrate-user, completely understandable. I am sure she may have some soft corner for he ex, but I do not think this relation is going to be fruitful in long run. Someone who could not take a stand for his love and abandoned her to marry someone else does not deserve to be a part of her life. She should go ahead and plan a future with you. Consult with me for counseling. I will guide her. All the best.
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Its normal to feel confused before a big decision like marriage. Your friend seems to be going through the same dilemma. She maybe having her doubts about her feelings for you or her ex. As an adult she just needs some assessment and counselling to help her clear her mind and reach a decision. As psychiatrist we are here to help her logically evaluate her problem and reach a conclusion that's best for her. Its important to understand the patient first. So if you want you can consult me.
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