I am married but now we are separated from each other. We filed divorce in June 2016 but now I have fear of divorce n I am very depressed. I couldn't even understand what to do in future please help me.

Dr. Saul PereiraPsychologist46yrs exp

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If you are pursuing the divorce for good reason and do not see a solution, then you can go ahead. But if there are serious doubts, go back to your husband and the both of you can visit a marriage counselor and sort things out. You are still young and may have made an impulse decision and acted on it. There is nothing wrong to have regrets later. I see that divorce proceedings have not actually proceeded. So there is time. Besides, I don't know if you sought professional help prior to making this decision. If you have not, then please do so immediately. Without professional help you two may have played some psychological games and will regret it later. Like it is happening now. Do not let your ego stop you from reaching out and accepting your mistake. Yes, there will be fear of the divorce when you actually come to face it. This is true for a lot of couples but make sure it is for the right reasons otherwise you would have gone ahead and will have more depression from the regret. You can actually turn the clock. 

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