Hi doctor. I feel alone in the crowed I get attached to people easily and afterwards when their attitude changes towards me I start feel low .and become depressed. Please help me do not know what to do.
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I think you suffer from a rejection issue. This rejection is usually founded in your family of origin, and is somewhat manifest in some descriptions you have given already. This is not to find fault in your parents: they may have done a lot of things with good intentions but may have inadvertently set up rejection. If you go way back, and see if there was any rejection prenatally or postnatally (again all this with intention or without), the child will pick up the sensation or feel like she is not wanted or even rejected. As you can see, I am presuming all this. You will have to give it substance, if you so have the substance. Without reaching to any conclusions, just indulge in this thought to see if there is any semblance of truth to explore it further. Your parents may throw light on this but don’t share too much of what I saying until it has been verified. Also find out, if there was an abortion or miscarriage before or after you were born. Whether you were wanted by both parents at birth. Whether they expected a male child and were disappointed that you were a girl. How long were you breast-fed by mom etc? These will all throw some light on my proposal of rejection, if there is any truth. Regarding this fear you should meet with a counselor and deal with it. In time as you are freed of this fear, you will be able to relate normally to people and socialize well.
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You have to accept people as they are and avoid mentally going close to all people without knowing their nature.
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Good Afternoon ~ The need for closeness is quite common and the kind of thoughts and actions that you are describing does not seem to be healthy either for you or for the person who you cling on to. It seems like you are also going for such attachments just so your emptiness is filled even if it is for a very small amount of time. I also believe that you should be able to express yourself first and find out if the person you are want to become close to, also wants the same to happen to them. Otherwise you are setting yourself up for disappointment like you have yourself described. If you need further help or medications based on the symptoms that you would like to express during any private or confidential session, I highly encourage that and would recommend that you go ahead and book a paid appointment with the undersigned.
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