I need psychological help. I don't know whether these are the symptoms of depression or not, but I feel so that I am getting depressed day by day. I feel sad, I always cry. Sometimes I feel like I want to commit something wrong but then I control myself. Yes I am in a relationship and we fight. But then whenever this situation comes where we fight, I get very weak. I cry a lot, can't sleep till 5 am and when I sleep. I sleep too late. Infact I sleep a bit too much. I feel that I am a lonely person, I feel isolated. Whenever I get to smile for a reason, I get scared along with. So that I do not get to cry again at the end of the day. Sometimes I want to cry my heart out, I want to cry out loud, but I can't. Yes I have self harmed many a times. I have even tried a lot to get myself busy into some activities but it won't help. Sometimes I feel like sharing these with someone but then I can't, I can't open up in front of any of my friends, neither my boyfriend as he might misunderstand me, all I do is just cry and cry. Please help me out and let me know whether these are the symptoms of depression or not.
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Hi, lybrate-user, as per your condition, this is not a depression. You are unable to express your feelings and you have been hitting yourself without taking any chance to explain others and understand others. Its common to fight between you and boyfriend, but he is your boyfriend and you should understand and give him everything you are feeling and say what every you are hiding. Do not worry he will understand. And you are not weak, you are strong and thats why you are not expressing the things. Go express whatever you like and be free. If the relation is not going, be free. And enjoy your life. Its time to have full of your life and you are not dependent on anyone. You can talk to me if you need more help, thanks.
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It's no doubt symptoms of depression consult any psychologist.
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Dear Ms. lybrate-user, I went through your query in detail and can understand what you must be going through. From what you have mentioned, it definitely suggests underlying depressive disorder. Considering the fact that you are having suicidal thoughts as well, it will be prudent that you seek help at the earliest. Please consult a psychiatrist and get yourself evaluated. Treatment with medications and psychotherapy will help you get better. Start exercising daily. Also start writing diary on a daily basis in order to vent out your feelings and emotions. I do hope that you recover soon. Best wishes.
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You seem to be suffering from Borderline Personality or Emotionally unstable personality. The cause is unknown but research suggests there is an interaction between adverse life events and genetic factors. Neurobiological research suggests that abnormalities in the frontolimbic networks are associated with many of the symptoms There is a pattern of sometimes rapid fluctuation from periods of confidence to despair, with fear of abandonment and rejection. There is a particularly strong tendency towards suicidal thinking and self-harm. They have love-hate relationship with close ones. Transient psychotic symptoms, including brief delusions and hallucinations, may also be present. It is also associated with substantial impairment of social, psychological and occupational functioning and quality of life. People with emotionally unstable personality disorder are particularly at risk of suicide. Its course is variable and, although many people recover over time. Kindly consult a psychiatrist for remedy.
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