His nature is like that he doesn't like anyone questioning him or asking him about his life. Where he is going with whom n all. Still I don't ask him much bcos he don't like but then too caring purpose I feel like to ask him. Even when we are in the bedroom he is all the time being busy with watching tv, chatting on Wattsup with anybody, calling n trying to make his schedule busy, and iPad chatting on fb with other girls. Three to four times he is going to toilet and taking iPad inside and chatting with all those girls. Many time I have entered in the toilet I can't smell dirty inside means he didn't do anything except chatting. Weekdays he is busy with his new upcoming project and weekends he is going to Pune for Pune projects but there he do partying and calls for other girls and entertainment. When I ask him can we go for a weekend somewhere he is saying yes will go but the day n time never comes. It's more than 1 and half years but he is not interested to take me anywhere. I said I need a break n asking you since so long. He send me Singapore last month for a week with his brother n I was not ready to go but he go so much higher, bcos of scared I went but there too he was in my mind n keep thinking what he is doing what n with whom mall, after coming I came to know he stayed 4 days in the hotel intact we r having our own house thn too he stayed out. N he started drinking a lot till early morning. Worried about his health. All his friends n chances are with him only for money nothing else. No one is bother to care for him. I do but he wants to stay away from me. I'm really in depression and want to quit his drinking habits and cut of his all mean friends n chamchas. I want him to save money and make a proper house so we can start our family. I want to have my own family husband n our angel, but now he is saying we shouldn't have a baby bcos I'm now 35 years n he is 55 yrs. Whole life he wants to do party and wasting money. His Pune friends group are drug addiction and now he also started taking that from last more than two months. Others are spoiling him n ruining our love life. He is so much addicted to body massage at cheap place which is known as wrong way. I told him but he is not ready to understand all these n in return he is getting angry on me. I really can't leave without him and love is my weakness n Bcos so of love I'm facing n baring everything. He hurts me a lot n don't even try to understand me to keep me happy. He is not ready go out with me for shopping or dinner or anything specially. Earlier he use to take me out n keep me happy at least for few hours in a week. Now to it's more than 4 months n he is fully changed. On valentines also I use to spend time now he avoids me n purposely making trips n work Schedule n he leaves me alone. I can't tell all these to mummy also else she will be very upset that my daughter is not happy n all. Please me n give me the way.
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get checked him up if he is able to be father meana semen analysis sometimes people runaway to hide their weakness or what they think as their weaknesses if eveything is fine regarding health and still he is behaving like it please change your partner or have an IVF and get a baby and enjoy your life
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It is very difficult to advise you because the writing is on the wall, so to say. Then the age difference is too much between you two. Not that this should be the reason for his escapades. I think he is really having a good time without you and with other females that your love for him is totally misplaced. You have to accept him as he is and live with his terms, if cannot live without him. That will however be a life of total misery and having a baby with this kind of setup is detrimental to all of you. There is no use pretending to your mother that everything is hunky-dory just to appease her. You are making him feel that he is god's gift to mankind!!! You have to take some hard decisions and live life on your terms.
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