I am 24 years old and I am in a relationship with a man. I am insecure towards this relationship. I have fallen in love for the first time and it is long distance relationship. I am anxious that he does not love me. As there are no attempts from his side to nurture the relationship. In my opinion, when a person is in love. A person should do things that love can grow healthy. A surprise call in the middle of the day would do. But I thing my boyfriend do not care that much. I have discussed things with him earlier about it but there is no improvement or any change in his behaviour. He does not understand my emotional needs. Please help me. All these things are making me awake all night and over stressed.
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Hi Anshu! I can understand that you have fallen in love truly with a man (age? Married man ?) but you have a doubt if that guy is loving you truly or not. Anshu, even now it is not late for you to verify that person's character and habits and about his marital status etc. If you are really serious of getting married you need to first understand about this person and think many times before getting married, will he take care of you in any situation and will his love, care and affection remain the same even after years. You can talk to him frankly about your expectations from him and ask him if he can really meet your expectations or not. If he says yes he can then you can actually disclose about this relation to both of your parents and get married. If not it would be wise to first judge him and then get married. Definitely will take at least 6 months to 1 year to judge a person's character. So whatever your decision should be a wise decision because it is your life happiness and sufferrings is based on your judgement and verification. Take care. Be relaxed and be strong. With regards, Psy. MSV.
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Dear lybrate-user, I understand. It is important to remember we are only in control of our own emotions, thoughts and behaviors, we cannot control what another persons thinks, feels and does. Many times there is a miscommunication among partners in relationships due to varied expectations. It is important to sit down with your partner and list out your expectations and allow for your partner to do the same. From this you can create common goals and work towards it to improve your relationship. I hope this helps you and your partner better understand each others emotional needs. Please consult privately for further help. Good Luck.
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