I am 23 years old male sir I am fed up with some complications of my health which were not before a year or months back I am facing inactiveness tiredness fatigue and low confidence all the time feel sleepy and dizzy I am losing my memory I mean I am unable to recollect things weak memory, which I used to remember before (before such complications) losing interest in social lifestyle, if I have reasons to be happy then suddenly I become upset mood swings happen suddenly and all the day head ache feeling like useless and blank which I never used to feel before I am unable to talk stammering due low confidence I am in turmoil not only every one but even I myself can't believe what I was before I am not the same now even I forgot to mention I lost interest in food and taste buds at all BP is 140/100 avg at this age P. S: the only difference btwn last yr and now is I am alone time last year I completed my engg grad so am idle this might be a one factor but not actual root cause please help me.

Dr. Saul PereiraPsychologist47yrs exp

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Yes, this last factor may not be the complete reason. There is reason to believe that something from the past is infringing on the present to cause such a reaction. Your bp is certainly not normal and this is a sign of the stress you are in. There is a lot of anger for sure and it seems to be covered up with some fear too. The symptoms are not looking good either and you must meet with a counselor first, and then if that person decides, you may have to meet with a doctor too. The timing is somewhat consonant with a person who is into what is called delayed adolescence. The sudden development of these symptoms is therefore not surprising. You must find out if there is any family history of psychological problems from the time of your grandparents, on both sides. Apart from that there may be some developmental issues that have not been resolved. So when meeting with the counselor, it is better to take your parents with you to throw some light as to the genesis of these problems. Do not neglect this for much longer because early interventions favor good prognosis. Also remember that you can get out of this mess only with full cooperation. In the meantime please do regular exercise, sleep well and eat healthily. Even if you do not like it, you must socialize to prevent your mind from internalizing these emotions and issues, until proper diagnosis and treatment is started. Finding a job will go a long way to relieve some symptoms but not to solve the problems. 

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