I am in a relationship for the last 5 yrs. Things were cool in the beginning bt then initial fights started. But for the last 1 year things are at its worst. My bf refuses to listen to anything I say. He is heavily addicted to alcohol and sometimes takes N10 tablets as well. He seems to have no feelings for me anymore but he says he wants to marry me. He has introduced me to his family but on the other hand I see no urge in him to talk to me spend time with me. He is always with his friends. Sometimes he suddenly stops taking my calls even without any fight. I find his phone switched off and maybe a day or two later he calls me or msgs me. I have tried asking him why he does this and that it creates a lot of mental pressure on me. I am into severe depression and can't sleep at nights. He says he has a lot of grudges against me n he will behave after he is satisfied. But sometimes he is even nice fr a day or two. What does he want? I try a lot but I am unable to leave him. Pls help.
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Hi, I can understand your feelings but being in a foul relationship will lead you in worse situations. You love him but he is not reciprocating it the way it should be then why to give up on your self esteem? I know that it's not easier to leave the person you love but are you a door mat? Either talk to him straight and in a firm way about your relationship or just get out of it. It will take some time to overcome from the trauma of separation but it would be better than this present hell. Your self respect should always be your first priority otherwise due to your partner's ill behavior you may regret the whole life. I would suggest you to take some days off from this relationship and give a deep thought to your future with him. Write down his positives and negatives. If positives are more then go ahead in this relationship otherwise get out of it.
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