How to deal with my mom. She is showing high partiality between me and my brother. Some times I feel like what is the purpose of my life even mom dislikes me. In every single thing she gives importance to him only. Am elder to him am 24 and he is 18. It started from the day he born. I hate him so much because of my mom. He is sweet too. But all my life from age 6 am searching for a reason why is she doing this to me. She does all her duties for me. She loves me. I know that. But in a situation like If she wanted to choose between me and him. She chooses him blindly. This irritates me. Even dad has more affection for him than me I know that but it is not an issue to me. I hate this life no one likes me so much. I have no one to be with. I know am a grown up girl but I can't handle this. Doctor please suggest me to deal with this situation. I used to dream of an angle mother when I was a kid she never hated me or beat me. But that solution is long gone now I can't console myself by dreaming I am in need of a real solution.
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Your feelings of being discriminated are reflective of Indian mindset which is heavily biased for a male child. This bias is also root cause of female foeticide and a skewed male to female ratio. The bias is based on beliefs that sons are assets and daughters are liabilities which is completely incorrect in present times when girls study more, earn like boys in any profession and can be independent. I suggest you ignore such behavior of your parents, esp mother. You focus on your study/career/ life goals as you would like them to be. With all your energy, try to be as independent, educated and confident about yourself as possible in your circumstances and have a network of friends, guides, colleagues who are strong and well meaning citizens of 21st century India. Don't feel vulnerable physically, emotionally or economically. Take charge of your own life and don't let old and wrong thinking of your mother dampen your spirits. Best wishes.
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