I am 37 years old. Got married last year to a person who was divorced. He was even jailed due to his ill behaviour with his previous wife. However I was single but due to my age I had limited option. And he then showed me he was the best. However after marriage from day 1 he had been fighting a lot. Wants me to work and pay his dues. When I said I won't. Then he completely denied that he ever asked for that. I planned to have baby. As I felt may be due to his old mishaps he is such. But during all my pregnancy he kept fighting with me. I am staying with my parents since past one and a half year due to his fights. I asked him to go to psychiatrist as he fights a lot. He takes it negatively. And doesn't talk to me for many days. Kindly advise how can I take care of all these. I have a seven month old daughter as well. And due to all the fights my health has deteriorated and not able to still go for any work. And I can't even claim for a good earning now. After a long gap year.
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Hello ,I can well understand what you seem to be going through. There is a lot of insecurity that you must be experiencing .As per the details shared by you it seems your husband has some aggression issues hat need to be addressed. As this has been a kind of life style so he seems to be caught in the web .Talk to him patiently and ask him to state all his problems. Give him support that together you both can confront them. Make a list of the worries that trouble him and take actions step by step as a team, to handle them .Win his trust to enjoy a life long companionship. Certainly, constant problems can be a major reason for losing ones cool .So relax ,act and don't react to the circumstances. Surely you both can sail together with each other's support.
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