Hello! I'm so depressed and sad. Even want to commit suicide. Month ago I lost my virginity with man I loved and trusted. Now our relationships is very difficult. I believed that we will marry soon and I trusted him. We are separate now. The problem is I'm Muslim and if someone from my family learn about my lost virginity I will be literally killed. I'm afraid so much. Please help me to avoid fear. Thank you.

Dr. Paramjeet SinghPsychiatrist14yrs exp

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Hello lybrate-user, I can some what understand your frustration and distress at the current situation. Howsoever, please be very very sure that ending the life is not an solution to your turmoil. Please know that in the current context and the times that we live in virginity is more a state of mind than just loss of hymen. My suggestion for you is that please seek a consultation with a psychiatrist near you for evaluation and treatment. Just the fact of having a professional listen to you will be of immense help to you. Thereafter need of short term medication can be assessed. Do not lose hope, help will be available to you if you seek it from the right person (which would be a psychiatrist in current situation). Hope this helps you. Best wishes for your health and future.  

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