I think that my parents don't love me. Today I fought with my parents and the matter was very small, to teach me to ride a bike. I told them but they either ignores me or they gave excuses. I think that I am adopted, they sent me to a good school but they don't respect my opinions, don't pay attention towards me, don't fulfill my desires. Like, some weeks ago, they wanted to buy a second hand car (only desire). But we currently live on rent and had started building our new home, I said that it was not a right time to buy the car, but they ignored me. And yes, my mom and dad used to abuse me. Especially from dad, he abuses me so often. 7-8 days ago I had a very bad cough that lasted for 6-7 days and used to cough a lot at night. As I coughed my dad got irritated and used to abuse to have a child like me and used me to control my coughing. I think of suicide. Please help me immediately before I took wrong step.
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Hi Lybrate-user! Very sorry to hear your emotional pain that you are undergoing currently. You are only son I believe, but do notice they treat you well in certain matters like food, clothing, school etc. But only in certain matters they do not listen to you, may be there must be some other underlying causes, and definitely not ignorance or lack of love. They do really love you, because of which they may not accept certain decisions by you that is because they really do care and they give importance for your safety. Not only you guys of your age, I believe you are in teen, definitely almost teens of your age group about 50 to 70% do feel that their parents do not love them, reasons may be many depending on their work stress, financial problems, family issues and many other problems they tend to show that anger to their children or their family members, that is the reason your dad asked you to control cough, may be he wanted you to not suffer pain because of which he asked you to control cough, your dad wants you to be strong and healthy. At this age you will feel negative, you might have a negative opinion about your parents. My advise would be for you to see only the good qualities from your parents and delete the negative qualities or character from your parents. You focus only on achieving your goals, study well, join a Professional job, and keep succeeding in your life. Ignore the insult or hurting words or expressions from your parents so that it does not affect you emotionally. Be strong, be confident, be good, perceive good, admire only good from everyone. A time will come in future when your parents will love, care and accept your decisions more transparently and at that time you will get the answer for all your questions. Teen age is not the right age for you to take negative or wrong decisions in life, because then you will be the loser and everyone around you will think that you are a weaker person and coward guy to take a wrong step. Being born in this world, you need to live this life completely as long as you are destined to live by God, purpose of your birth us determined by God, which you will be knowing only in between the age of 21 to 35 years, that is the age 9f maturity. Think good, live good, do good as much as you are capable of, and be helpful for others till your last breath. You need not take pain or struggle but to your conscious be honest and helpful. Live for a purpose. Your expectations will be fulfilled from those irrespective of your parents at a stage in your life, now you are too young to understand and realize. Take care and be relaxed. Love and smile to your closed ones even if they hate you, you will find happiness filled with peace each day,
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